Courage in the family business

While most of my reflections focus on King David’s life and behavior, let’s consider others in the narrative. Joab was a relative of David’s and his trusted military commander. Here we see Joab preparing for battle on two fronts with the Syrians and Ammonites (recall the Ammonites had just rebuffed David’s peaceful overtures).

When Joab saw that the battle was set against him both in front and in the rear, he chose some of the best men of Israel and arrayed them against the Syrians. The rest of his men he put in the charge of Abishai his brother, and he arrayed them against the Ammonites. And he said, “If the Syrians are too strong for me, then you shall help me, but if the Ammonites are too strong for you, then I will come and help you. Be of good courage, and let us be courageous for our people, and for the cities of our God, and may the LORD do what seems good to him.” (2 Sam. 10:9-12)

Joab and his brother Abishai are facing a difficult situation on the battlefield, fighting two armies at once. Joab chooses the best talent and devises a plan, complete with contingencies. He motivates his people with encouragement, pointing to the higher purposes of saving “our people” and “the cities of our God.” And then he acknowledges that God is in control.

In family businesses, it often feels like you are facing battles on multiple fronts. Employee challenges, threats from competitors, weather or supply chain issues…and that’s before adding in the family drama! But we learn from this passage to

1. Acknowledge the reality of our situation

2. Devise a good plan with alternatives

3. Encourage others with a broader purpose, and

4. Recognize God’s intentions and sovereignty.

Do you ever feel you are fighting multiple battles at the same time? Of the four items/ideas just mentioned, which is generally easiest for you?  Hardest?